Blame / Regret
Blame – responsibility for a fault or wrong
Blame is a negative word. Do you blame others for your misfortune? If so why? Nobody can affect your life unless you let them. Do you let them? If so why? Stop blaming others for what they didn’t do and start to take responsibility for your own life.
That doesn’t mean you should blame yourself either. Things happened and that was just a bad choice at that time. Make a better choice next time and don’t blame others or yourself and stop being the victim, it’s not healthy. Take control of your health and life and see what good comes your way. Living in love has no room for blame so remove it from your thoughts and your vocabulary. Life is too short to blame anyone or yourself. Stop blaming everyone and the divine. Today you are going to take your life in to your own hands, realizing the Divine is always with you. The Divine does not blame, he loves and forgives and that is what he wants for you. We blame others so we don’t have to look at our own insecurities or faults. That is not healthy for you or the other person. When you remove the blame you stop being the victim. Being the victim can take up lots of energy and deplete your health. The real question is, why do you feel that you need to blame someone? Love and respect yourself, do not blame others and just let blame go and forgive. It is time. Do you blame yourself for something? If so what is it? Why? Blame is something you learned from someone else. There is no place for blame in any relationship. Blame is an excuse for whatever is going on between you and someone else. Blame should not be a feeling you ever have. It’s time to stop the blame game.
Regret – feel or express sorrow, or disappointment
There is no time to regret the past or what you did or didn’t do, what you said or didn’t say. You can always do something about it. Would you want someone to regret something in their lives? No, so why should you? Do you need to talk to someone or forgive someone? If so, then find a way to do it. You might be surprised to see what can happen, take a chance and stop that regret. Life is too short so live it without regrets, live life to the fullest. Take a chance. What do you regret in your life? When was it? Is it too late to fix that regret? If it is too late then forgive yourself and move on. What is done is done. Regret is a feeling you never need to have. To stop feeling regret you must correct it. Talk to someone, do something to remove the regret from your energy. Help to release the energy blockage. The Divine has no regrets; he is only about love and peace. The Divine wants this for you so remove your regrets. Remember that we hold hurt and feelings about things longer than the person who hurt us. They have forgotten about it so now it’s your turn to move on. No regrets, no blame, just love these people and yourself.